A Mother Of Six Children, Now Walking Beside You

"I used to plan birthday parties. Now I plan farewells.

The skills are surprisingly the same – logistics, budget, and making sure everyone feels loved and included."

My name is Ginn. I am a mother to six children. For years, my life was chaos in the best way – school runs, tuition fees, arguments over who finished the last packet of chicken rice, and the quiet, exhausted joy of tucking them into bed at night.

I never planned to become an Afterlife Planner.

But life had other plans.

After my eldest son at the age of 15 request to work in mortuary, looking after my dementia father in law who struggle to remember who we are, watching a close friend struggle with funeral costs had make me realise my own parents had nothing prepared, I realised something frightening:

In Singapore, most families are completely unprepared for death.

Not because they don't care. But because no one talks about it. And when death comes – suddenly, at 3am, in the middle of a work week – families are forced to make $30,000 decisions while sleep-deprived and grieving.

That is not fair. That is not loving. And that is where I come in.

Why Me?

I am not a traditional funeral director.

I don't sell coffins. I don't push expensive packages.

I don't benefit from your confusion.

I am a planner.

Think of me as the person who sits with you _ over tea, at kopitiam, or on a Zoom call - and asks the simple questions:

What music do you want?
Who must be invited?
Who should NOT be allowed to make decisions?
What is your budget?
Where do you want to rest?

And then I write it all down. I lock in prices. I secure the niche.

I give you a PDF to keep in your drawer and another to give your children.

When the time comes, they don't have to guess. They don't have to argue.

They either do it themselves follow all the according pdf document Or Just call me.

My Credentials

As a mother of SIX, I have managed budgets, crises, and family politics for decades. Nothing scares me.
As a Singaporean, I understand HDB void deck funerals, private parlours, government columbarium rules, and the Chinese / Buddhist / Taoist / Christian customs that matter to our families.
The CCCS guideline trained, I do not hard sell. I do not mark up prices unfairly. Your trust is my only currency.

The Philosophy

"I plan for families the way I wish someone had planned for mine."

When I look at my six children, I don't think about what I will leave behind. I think about what they will have to carry.

The paperwork. The phone calls. The decisions. The guilt.

A good afterlife plan does not just save money. It saves relationships.

I have seen siblings stop speaking because one wanted a $10,000 package and the other wanted a $30,000 package. I have seen adult children cry because they didn't know whether their parent wanted to be scattered at sea or placed in a niche.

That will not happen to your family. Not if I have anything to say about it.

You Do Not Need To Be Ready To Buy Anything

You just need to be ready to talk.

I offer a free 20-minute tea chat – no pressure, no pitch, no hidden fees. You tell me where you are. I tell you what I would do if you were my own sibling or close friend.

Sometimes that means:

Walking you through the first 24 hours after a loss
Explaining the difference between government and private niches
Helping you talk to your parents about their wishes
Or just listening while you crythen I write it all down. I lock in prices. I secure the niche.